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Debra Bellings-Kee, BA, JD, MFT
(Mental Health Professional)
As your coach or child specialist I bring to your collaborative team many years experience as a child and family psychotherapist, mediator, and family law attorney. I also have many years of personal experience blending a family of five children.
As your coach, I will assist you in moving through the collaborative process in a way that is centered on your needs. I will help you prepare a parenting plan that is developmentally appropriate for your child or children. As your child specialist, I will be the voice of your children in the collaborative meetings.
I trust in the good intentions and integrity of the collaborative process and our collaborative teams. Most importantly, I believe in the healing that can come from moving through family transitions in this way.
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Debra Bellings-Kee, JD, MFT |
| Address(es): |
1030 Sir Francis Drake Blvd.
Suite 120, Room 9
Kentfield CA 94904 USA
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| Phone: |
415-454-8408 |
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| Email: |
dembelkee@yahoo.com |
| Website: |
http://www.debrabellingskee.com |
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| Professional Activities |
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Collaborative Family Law Professionals of Marin
Collaborative Practice San Francisco-Board Member
International Academy of Collaborative Professionals
California Association of Marriage Family Therapists
California Association of Marriage Family Therapists-Marin County
Association of Family Law and Conciliation Courts
Association of Family Law and Conciliation Courts-California Chapter
California State Bar (Family Law Section)
Marin County Bar Assoc. (Family Law and Alternative Dispute Resolution Sections)
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| Professional Licenses |
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Marriage Family Therapist --#MFC 44798
California State Bar #101819
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| General Comments |
In my earlier career as a family law attorney I was routinely saddened by the emotional turmoil to the family in the wake of a parent 'winning' in the courtroom. In my current career as a marriage family therapist, divorce coach, child specialist, parenting coordinator and parenting plan mediator, I am passionate about working collaboratively in this field to help our clients move through this process in a gentler fashion where in the end, the family wins.
I currently enjoy being a board member for Collaborative Practice San Francisco, co-chairing the volunteer committee for IACP 2011 forum, working on the CP-CAL Public Education Committee task force and the Public Education Committee with the Collaborative Family Law Professionals of Marin.
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| Areas of Practice |
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Child Specialist
Divorce Coach
Mediation
Parenting Coordinator
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| Education |
| Undergraduate Education |
| Bachelor of Arts Degree in English (1978) from the University of Southern California |
| Post-graduate Education |
Juris Doctorate Degree (1981) from Southwestern University School of Law
Master of Science Degree in Counseling Psychology (2004) from Dominican University
Robert Shukraft Award for Inspirational Leadership, Dominican University Department of Counseling Psychology
Book Award for Outstanding Service to Counseling Psychology, Psi Chi National Honor Society in Psychology. |
| Professional Education |
Master's Certification in Intuition Medicine (1995) from the Academy of Intuition Medicine
Curretly a Member of the Advisory Board for the Academy of Intuitive Studies |
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| Collaborative Practice Training |
| Year |
Training Type |
Instructor |
Hours |
| 2007 |
Conflict Resolution Training |
Matthew Sullivan, Ph.D |
24 |
| 2007 |
Mediation Training |
Nancy Foster, J.D. |
40 |
| 2007 |
Conflict Resolution Training |
Joan Kelly, Ph.D |
14 |
| 2008 |
Advanced Mediation Training |
Gary Friedman, J.D. |
40 |
| 2008 |
Advanced Collaborative Law Training |
Peggy Thompson, Ph.D. |
7 |
| 2008 |
Intermediate Collaborative Law Training |
Joan Kelly, Ph.D. |
7 |
| 2008 |
MFT Law and Ethics Training |
I was instructor |
2 |
| 2008 |
Integrated Team Practice |
I was instructor |
3 |
| 2008 |
Plenary Panel for Business Development |
I was instructor |
3 |
| 2008 |
Advanced Collaborative Law Training |
Friedman & Connor |
13 |
| 2008 |
Advanced Collaborative Law Training |
Pauline Tesler, M.A., J.D. |
14 |
| 2008 |
Basic Collaborative Law Training |
Catherine Connor, J.D. |
28 |
| 2008 |
IACP Forum New Orleans-Advanced Workshops |
Various |
28 |
| 2009 |
Advanced Collaborative Training |
Catherine Connor, JD |
2 |
| 2009 |
Advanced Collaborative Training |
Isolina Ricci, Phd. |
2 |
| 2009 |
The Good Divorce? |
I was instructor |
6 |
| 2010 |
Adult Children of Divorce Workshop |
I was instructor |
2 |
| 2010 |
Team Efficiency Through Early Understanding of Client |
I was instructor |
3 |
| 2011 |
Mediation training-Advanced |
Nancy Foster, JD |
16 |
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** I have reviewed the IACP Minimum Standards for Collaborative Practitioners and the IACP Ethical Standards for Collaborative Professionals. I verify that I meet the IACP Minimum Standards for Collaborative Practitioners and that I apply the IACP Ethical Standards for Collaborative Professionals in my collaborative practice.
See IACP Standards >
** I have reviewed the IACP Minimum Standards for Collaborative Trainers I verify that I am a Collaborative Practice trainer who meets those Minimum Standards.
** I have reviewed the IACP Minimum Standards for a Collaborative Basic Training. I verify that the basic training that I offer as a Collaborative Practice trainer meets those Minimum Standards.
IACP does not verify the information provided by the professionals listed in this directory.
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| Continuing Education |
| Year |
Education Type |
Instructor |
Hours |
| 2009 |
Domestive Violence High Conflict Divorce |
Joan Kelly, Ph.D. |
6 |
| 2009 |
Children's Attachment: Relevence to Custody Questions |
Lee, Olesen, Drozd |
6 |
| 2009 |
Involving Mental Health Professionals in Settlement Conf |
Judge Adams, Lee, etc. |
1.5 |
| 2009 |
Listening to Children's Voices in Divorce Process |
Joan Kelly, Ph.D. |
6 |
| 2009 |
Law and Ethics for Marriage Family Therapists |
I was instructor |
2 |
| 2010 |
Law and Ethics for Marriage Family Therapists |
I was instructor |
2 |
| 2010 |
Interviewing Children of Divorce |
Joan Kelly, Ph.D. |
6 |
| 2010 |
Age Appropriate Parenting Plans |
Joan Kelly, Ph.D. |
6 |
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